Dont be needy of anyone or anything. That may hurt you bad... And that may distract you from what you are. :) So, never be needy of anything in life...
And I think you hava a common 'space' where anyone can barge into. Just delete that space. It would help you, I'm sure. Always draw a line. And dont let anybody enter beyond that. The thing is, if you dont do it, it would hurt your freedom, and free-will...

- courtesy my Guru... :)

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Anonymous said…
Absolute truth yaar...
Itz terrible :(
December 15, 2008 at 1:51 PM
Durga Nandan said…
it is not terrible once you learn and start loving yourself. :) trust me.
December 17, 2008 at 10:10 AM
Anonymous said…
i jus said wat u tol is d TRUTH from my past experiences... You r right! but it doesn't mean dat i dun luv myself yaar :)
December 19, 2008 at 11:29 AM
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