Win, Lose.

When a habitual winner loses, unless he is exceptional, he takes it to heart and it beats him.
More than how much a habitual loser feels totaling the whole series of his loses.

It just hits him hard.
Imaginably, the picture of a winning loser is better than a losing winner.

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Amit Kumar Singh said…
In a same way, when a habitual looser wins
the happiness he derives from it, is many times of the totaling of all happiness, a habitual winner derives after winning.
In this case, I will say.....
It is displacement that matters, not postion.

cheers!!
August 25, 2009 at 9:29 PM
Durga Nandan said…
Exactly! :) :)
the displacement analogy is a new angle. :)
August 25, 2009 at 10:25 PM
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August 26, 2009 at 11:23 AM
Durga Nandan said…
@ Sathish : Thanks dear. :)
Btw, I checked out your blog. Unfortunately, it is about movies, something I watch rarely.
And seriously, I cant tell the difference between most of the hollwood hotshots. Cant really decide if it is bad or good. :)
Cheerz anyways. :)
Durga.
August 28, 2009 at 9:49 PM
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