advices, trust me, i use them . :P

This is an advice I found useful.. though some parts of it were not exactly acceptable to my moral side..[ I 'censored' them.. :) ]

still thought I wud share it with you..

".....Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth; oh nevermind ! you will not
understand the power and beauty of your youth until they have faded.
But trust me, in 20 years you’ll look back at photos of yourself and
recall in a way you can’t grasp now how much possibility lay before
you and how fabulous you really looked….You’re not as fat as you
imagine. [ me n fat?? huh!! (but 20 yrs from now? god knows!!) ]

Don’t worry about the future; or worryabout anything at all... but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing
bubblegum. The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that
never crossed your worried mind; the kind that blindside you at 4pm
on some idle Tuesday. [my papa calls me an idiot cos the only thing i worry about is how to keep myself worry-free..][ i tell him i am in a de-stressed(distressed) ;) mood]

Do one thing everyday that scares you [ah!!! that wud be 'toooooo' interesting! ]

Sing [i do that mostly every waking moment of the day.. ]

Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, don’t put up with
people who are reckless with yours. [this is something i think i ve had flaws in following...but then,u cant say i didnt try..]

Floss [he he.. ]

Don’t waste your time on jealousy; sometimes you’re ahead, sometimes
you’re behind…the race is long, and in the end, it’s only with
yourself. [too true.. ]

Remember the compliments you receive, forget the insults; if you
succeed in doing this, tell me how. [ buddy,u got to have a bad memory..that is all.. i do. and mostly forget wat others say.. unless on it depended my whole world!! ]

Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements. [ love letters??? did he not know we have traveled onto the e-mail age? :P and abt bank statements..well,i am sure u will need it for 'further clarifications' ... ]

Stretch [did that just now.. ]

Don’t feel guilty if you don’t know what you want to do with your
life…the most interesting people I know didn’t know at 22 what they
wanted to do with their lives, some of the most interesting 40 year
olds I know still don’t. [ah,no wonder i still donno which way to choose,there r three 'ways' before me.. :) to proceed in life..]

Get plenty of calcium. [getting paid for this sandoz ad?? ]

Be kind to your knees, you’ll miss them when they’re gone. [ nvr thot abt that till now.. ]

Maybe you’ll marry, maybe you won’t, maybe you’ll have children,maybe
you won’t, maybe you’ll divorce at 40, maybe you’ll dance the funky
chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary…what ever you do, don’t
congratulate yourself too much or berate yourself either – your
choices are half chance, so are everybody else’s. [ there was a part here,that i censored.]

Dance…even if you have nowhere to do it but in your own living room. [ ]

Read the directions, even if you don’t follow them.

Do NOT read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly. [beauty magz?? wat r they?? ]

Get to know your parents, you never know when they’ll be gone for
good. [ touched a nerve there.. ]

Be nice to your siblings; they are the best link to your past and the
people most likely to stick with you in the future. [sure..the bestest ever siblings were my birthday gifts.. ]

Understand that friends come and go,but for the precious few you
should hold on. Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and
lifestyle because the older you get, the more you need the people you
knew when you were young. [cant just digest the first part.. 'Understand that friends come and go'..rest is ok..]

Live in New York City once, but leave before it makes you hard; live
in Northern California once, but leave before it makes you soft. [ or else,live in new york,then after it makes u hard,go to california. ]

Travel. [sure dude!!! ]

Accept certain inalienable truths, prices will rise, politicians will
philander, you too will get old, and when you do you’ll fantasize
that when you were young prices were reasonable, politicians were
noble and children respected their elders. [there,he has said something too sensible..i shud show this to my granma.. ]

Respect your elders. []

Don’t expect anyone else to support you. Maybe you have a trust fund,
maybe you have a wealthy spouse; but you never know when either one
might run out.

Don’t mess too much with your hair, or by the time you're 40, it will
look 85. [ i know i know!! ]

Be careful whose advice you buy, but, be patient with those who
supply it. Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of
fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the
ugly parts and recycling it for more than it’s worth. [ wha??? !!! .. ]

Trust me!!! [ yeah!rit! ]"